Long Distance Relationship,Cinta Jarak Jauh

  

  A long distance relationship or some people call as a short form thing LDR. That is intimate relationship that takes place when the partners are separated by a considerable distance. And make it both of us very difficult to meet each others. Because of that a lot of challenge for this relationship to make it it build for long time. This distance make it challenged with the goal of maintaining love at a distance.

But to make it this relationship become longer dont have any reason to say "DONT HAVE". its belong to yourself and your partner to take care of it. As long as both of you still want to protect your relationship distance is not the reason. Here i would like to share with all of you a part of IMPORTANT thing should have and should do for LDR ;

1. Communicate. 

It‘s important that you speak, listen, write, fight, and laugh with your partner about everything that’s meaningful to you.May be we can use different channels for communication, and make a surprise for our honey from time to time such as like a postcard, a colorful photo, or an unexpected call. Its just not a surprise but also the sweet thing that can make our partner smile and miss us.

May be we don‘t hear from each other every day but sometimes we can‘t Skype or any video call. May be we can spend time for that a few hours. minimum 1hour or 2hours should be rite? Of cos should be because a few days didnt call or msg why not spend time for a few hours to see his/her face. It will make it your partner feel that you appreciated his/her.

One more thing you should sharing your struggles with your partner. it’s a way of being honest and authentic. Try to sharing what you doing what u thinking everyday when he/her dont have. Make yourself a team in this. May be sometime you also should sharing and thinking for your future planing. May be that can make both of us feel appreciated each others and try to make it this relationship more srius. The important thing HONEST. If you take on challenges together, it’s easier to handle the physical distance, and you get closer and surely learn a lot about each other.

Even if you aren’t miles apart, you want to find the right balance of interaction, and spice up communication with surprises here and there. You want to handle challenges as a team and become closer through them.

2. Challenge your doubts. 

we can‘t make the distance define our feelings. It is what it is, and we can only do our best today in loving each other, and work toward a life together with patience and faith.

Distance doesn‘t kill love, doubts do. Therefore we should give our best in choosing love over doubt.

Sometimes I’m not strong enough and let fear creep in. Then I share my frustration with him, talk to a close friend, or do something uplifting just for myself.

Then the feeling of love comes back on its own and laughs gently on our worried mind.

Every relationship faces challenges, and doubts may plague us sometimes. It’s our mind that causes doubts, so we’re the ones who can choose to take on a different perspective.

I’m not suggesting oppressing worries (that may be reasonable in unhealthy relationships), but I’d like to encourage you to choose a positive outlook when it’s healthy, instead of blocking yourself with limiting thoughts or labels.

If dont want to feel doubts may be both of you can share and honest what each other do it. Try to share your daily activities. The same time your partner will feel more closer with u because his/her can feel also what evryday you doing. Sharing and honest may be can  make our doubts gone .

3. Spend quality time together. 

You don‘t need to talk every day. Just make sure the time with each other is well spent. Laugh a lot.

Try to treat the distance as a friend, not an enemy. Be creative, play with the technical possibilities. celebrate occasionally with a dinner on Skype, watch a movie via shared screen, or dance to some good music. Your joy about sharing those day-to-day things may be very high, as you do not take them for granted.

Visit each other as often as you can, and spend time just the way you want. Save up money for visits, split costs, and plan activities you want to do together. This is crucial for you as a couple, and it refuels the batteries.

Even if you see your loved one often, you still need to consciously choose to spend quality time together.

I’ve learned that physical distance does not equal emotional distance, and there is so much to explore. It’s really what you make out of it.

The point is to not deny the hard parts, but also to not feel paralyzed by them.

These are just a few ways to find strength and happiness in a committed long distance relationship. Still have a lots of things that you should explore. May be some person its so hard. But because of love u should take that as a challenge. and make you more thiking serius for realtionship and make u more matured. But please. Both of u sholud be take this as a note. Not only one side to thiking how to take care long distance relationship. But both of u shold take note this and protect it.

This point i share for my experince and also may be for others experince. All the person that have commitment for long distance relationship will agree and feel the same thing what i'm thiking. i also feel the same things. But my relationship still not perfect still should be to protect and make it more stroger. Not because of distance we will give up for this relationship. Insyllah it will be until jannah :)

Hope all of this  share will be help to others person in long distnace relationship. . . .

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Lolyta